It all comes down to values. What do you value? what do you want your girlfriend/wife to value? What are your life goals? Etc. Find someone who has similar values to you.
Something I would suggest doing if you are considering dating someone younger or older is to think about their experiences in life and how that would affect your relationship.
Relationships are hard and they take time and dedication. Only you will know when you are ready to jump back into the dating world. Don’t worry about how and when, just take it one step at a time.
Invest in your relationship and be the man she deserves. Putting a little effort in will make ALL the difference in your day-to-day life.
A woman needs a consistent build-up of intimacy for her to be ready to have sex. She needs to feel desired and safe otherwise all your hard work in the bedroom may be for nothing.
How do you do this? With soft touches and small gestures. Walk up behind her and kiss the back of her neck. Buy her a small gift. Ask her how her day was and just listen. Compliment her. All of these acts combined will have her swooning and feeling like she matters to you.
Disclaimer: A dating coach and image consultant, for men, isn’t for every man out there. There is no hard and fast rule to tell you that you may need extra support in the dating game. I will outline five types of men that may seek out my services.
Being emotionally unavailable- Women have done all the emotional labor in relationships for centuries. But now, men are being held accountable and need to help give emotional support.
It can be overwhelming. You now have a bunch of women on your phone screen who are potential matches. How do you know you are choosing the right ones to talk with or to date? Decision fatigue is real.
Valentine’s day does not have to be stressful, scary, corporate, or hide if you’re single and alone kind of day. It may be cheezy or cliche to ask someone to be your valentine. Especially in the world we live in where everyone dates online. That is precisely why we need to bring it back. Be a little vulnerable men. She will appreciate it and you will stand out.
Confidence is being secure in your body, in your abilities, and in your mind. You hold yourself in high regard because you know you’re great and you don’t need to bring anyone else down to feel this way.