Relationships are hard and they take time and dedication. Only you will know when you are ready to jump back into the dating world. Don’t worry about how and when, just take it one step at a time.

A woman needs a consistent build-up of intimacy for her to be ready to have sex. She needs to feel desired and safe otherwise all your hard work in the bedroom may be for nothing. 

How do you do this? With soft touches and small gestures. Walk up behind her and kiss the back of her neck. Buy her a small gift. Ask her how her day was and just listen. Compliment her. All of these acts combined will have her swooning and feeling like she matters to you.

Being emotionally unavailable- Women have done all the emotional labor in relationships for centuries. But now, men are being held accountable and need to help give emotional support.

Valentine’s day does not have to be stressful, scary, corporate, or hide if you’re single and alone kind of day. It may be cheezy or cliche to ask someone to be your valentine. Especially in the world we live in where everyone dates online. That is precisely why we need to bring it back. Be a little vulnerable men. She will appreciate it and you will stand out.   

The need for a man who can support a woman financially is less in demand.