If you’re wondering how to become a high-value man, tune in! In this episode, I’m diving deep into what it means to be a high-value man in today’s society, why personal development is so important, and why we need to take ownership in our relationships. Once you become a high-value man, you will attract a high-value woman and your relationships will blossom.

Tune into this episode and remember, becoming a high-value man is a journey, not a destination. Embrace the growth own your actions and attract the love that you desire!

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In this week’s episode we discuss:

[01:41] The traits of a high-value man

[05:07] Self-reflection, self-awareness, and personal development

[07:37] The impact of working with a dating coach

[09:52] What qualities do women find attractive?

[12:29] Taking ownership in relationships

[14:02] What is a high-value woman?

[15:26] Why do we need to work on ourselves?

The traits of a high-value man

I want to break down the top traits of what it means to be a high-value man. I believe that these are the most profound:

1. He is an intentional and decisive man with his life. He is not wishy-washy or lets other people decide for him. He is making his decisions and feels very confident in them. 

2. He has clear boundaries because the clearer the boundaries the happier everyone is around him. 

3. He has big goals and takes action towards those goals.

4. He has purpose and when you have purpose, drive, and ambition, nothing is going to get you down. It takes a lot of digging deep to know what your purpose is and a high-value man has done that and sees his future. He also invests his time in other people who are valuable to him.

5. He knows his worth and he loves intensely and ferociously. He has high standards and holds other people to those standards as well. 

6. He strives to make the world a better place and wants to impact the world and make a positive mark on it. He embraces a leadership role and people will follow him because he is setting himself up for success.

7. He communicates straightforwardly and does not play games. He is clear in his communication and not passive-aggressive. 

8. He is emotionally intelligent, can control his emotions, and can hold space when others are emotional in front of him. 

9. He is confident but he is not cocky, there is a big difference. To be confident is to know oneself and to understand your value, your worth, and to be comfortable in who you are.

Self-reflection, self-awareness, and personal development

I want to remind you that nobody’s perfect, but the journey of self-improvement is what matters. I challenge you to self-reflect on these traits and ask yourself “Where do I stand?” and what can you focus on? When you break all of these down, where are you lacking? We are all human but if you continue down the path of self-growth, you can move mountains. 

When I talk about the importance of self-awareness and personal development ask yourself these questions:

-Where can I show up? 

-How can I learn to be better? 

-How can I grow? 

I want you to focus on spiritual, physical, financial, and relationship growth. We all need to be self-aware and building this and realizing our shortcomings is so important. There are so many resources out there for support including books and men’s coaches, if you need some recommendations, please reach out to me.

The impact of working with a dating coach

When you work with a dating coach, like myself, I can hold you to that higher standard so you are held accountable. I want nothing more for you than your success in life and relationships and I will be there to call you out too. I want you to eat well, meditate, journal, focus on hobbies that inspire you, and help you live out your passions. While also helping you to start to get uncomfortable and put yourself out there. 

When you go on this journey, you will be vibrating at a much higher frequency. You will be glowing, radiating, and you’ll have more confidence. If you are ready to make self-improvement part of your everyday life, working with a coach and developing a growth mindset is key. 

What qualities do women find attractive?

The qualities that make a man attractive to women are confidence, vulnerability, and empathy. Vulnerability is a strength. When you allow yourself to open up and hold space, it allows the woman to come into her feminine. This is because she feels protected by you and you are providing space for her to drop into. An empathetic man is understanding of others and wants the people around him to be better. I encourage you to live in a space of confidence, authenticity, vulnerability, and empathy. There is a magnetic power of a man who is fully present and focused on his partner but you also have to love yourself first!

Taking ownership in relationships

Taking ownership in relationships is also important. Relationships involve two people and they both play a role so you must take ownership of your actions and behaviors. When you own your faults, this leads to personal growth and freedom. Then you can go into your next relationships with lessons and you can be more confident and clear in who you are. And since like attracts like, your new partner will also be the type of person who takes ownership and accountability. 

What is a high-value woman?

A high-value woman is caring, empathetic, nurturing, and intuitive. They hold themselves accountable for their actions, have high levels of emotional intelligence, and mature. She is committed to growth in all areas, she is passionate, has self-love, and knows her worth. 

When you come in as a high-value man and she is a high-value woman, you are going to be a power couple. There is a need for these masculine and feminine energies to coexist in a harmonious relationship. When you have the perfect vibrations of the masculine and the feminine, you will coexist so beautifully. 

Why do we need to work on ourselves?

It is important to dedicate yourself to your personal development journey. Be self-aware and focus on self-improvement, because we all need to work on ourselves. We all need to be better human beings. And that will lead you to a more aligned relationship. Make sure to share this episode with your friends and ask yourself these questions:

How do you feel about some of these traits that I have discussed? 

How do you feel that they will help you in your day-to-day life and your next relationship? 

I also want you to remember that becoming a high-value man is a journey, not a destination. Embrace the growth own your actions and attract the love that you desire!