Does size really matter? It’s the question that everyone always asks. In today’s episode, we’re going to cover it all: how to make what you have work for you and how to pleasure your partner no matter their size. I open up about what most women really want, how to use foreplay and sex positions to your advantage, and I even give you a few specific examples to help you spice things up. So, does size really matter? Listen in to find out.

This episode, we discuss:

[1:42] The importance of knowing your partner’s wants

Big or small, you need to know what it is she wants from you. Take it from me, nine times out of ten, she’s not wanting the moves from the porno you’ve been watching. You need to take the time to tune into what your partner wants, what turns them on. In order for everybody to have a good time – you must turn a woman on first. It’s the only way for sex to truly be pleasurable.

[2:07] How to turn a woman on

When you know what your partner likes and dislikes, you can really get into foreplay and seduction. Now, it’s not going to happen in two seconds, but you can turn her desire on and let it burn. You can begin with cooking a meal for her, using foods with good smells, and preparing foods that are aphrodisiacs (hint: chocolate is one). Put on some sexy music and lighting, make sure you’re freshly showered and groomed, and wear a nice outfit that shows off your assets. She will love watching you cook, knowing that you put time and effort into planning this special dinner just for her. And that’s just one example. 

Did you know that sex can actually get better as you get to know your partner over time? So, if you have one bad night, especially when you’re first getting together, don’t write it all off as a loss! If there’s chemistry, let it build. When a woman becomes more relaxed, all her inhibitions will go out the door and her only focus will be getting naked…with you. And that’s just how we like it.

[5:23] Building chemistry

Did you know that sex can actually get better as you get to know your partner over time? So, if you have one bad night, especially when you’re first getting together, don’t write it all off as a loss! If there’s chemistry, let it build. When a woman becomes more relaxed, all her inhibitions will go out the door and her only focus will be getting naked…with you. And that’s just how we like it.

[6:18] Pornos vs reality

In general, you should know that most women do not want what women do in pornos. Those women are actresses, being paid for the performance of their life. We may (or may not!) have a fantasy of a rough night of sex, but it’s not an every day desire. In fact, a large percentage of women say that rough sex or a big package is really quite uncomfortable. 

[9:15] Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay

Being bisexual has really given me the advantage of being more versatile in my sexual desires, but one thing holds true – foreplay is the name of the game. Again, you want to find out what your partner likes most, but never forget about foreplay. Touching, sucking, and kissing is so important for pleasure. In fact, a large percentage of women only orgasm through clitoral stimulation.

[13:43] Ways to work with your size 

Do not let your size hold you back from amazing sex. When you take time to have a great sex life with yourself, you learn what you like and don’t like, which will do wonders for your relationship with your partner. If you find that you’re too large for her comfort, focus on foreplay and oral stimulation, and if you find you’re smaller than she’s used to, you can move your hips in a way that hits her g spot. At this point, you’ve already done a fantastic job with foreplay, so keep the mood going by trying out different sex positions and rhythms until you’re both having a great time.

[15:59] My answer to the size question

Men, women truly do not care about size like you do. It does not define your manhood. Your manhood should be defined by the way you treat your partner: Respect her, trust her, protect and love her. This is what we use to measure the quality of a man. If you do these things, size is not an obstacle..

Thanks for tuning in to today’s episode! Come and hang out with me on Instagram @celestemooreimage and let me know your thoughts on today’s episode, because I always love hearing from you all!

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The age-old question: Does size really matter?

June 20, 2022